Do I have to have sex or participate if I attend?
No, this is a safe space where you can feel free to take it as far are you are comfortable. If you would like to just observe or spend the evening dancing, that is perfectly fine.
How does do I get in to an Intimate party?
First, start out by filling out the application. Once approved, you will receive your login and then you will be able to check out events and purchase tickets for them.
How should I communicate my interest if I would like to physical with someone?
Even though the vibe can be hot and heavy, it's always best to ask first. This especially includes asking to play with others that are already in mid-play.
What if someone rejects me?
Don't take it personally, everyone has their particular types - you may just not be their type! Best advice is to take it with grace and wish them a great night. There are always more fish in the sea.
Will the hosts be participating in sexplay?
Our hosts are there to ensure that you have a fun, safe and enjoyable time and you have everything you need to do so. It is their own choice if the decide to participate or not, however, they usually will have their hands full running the party.
Why do you recommend applying as individuals instead of as a couple?
Relationships come and go, and some of our guests are polyamorous. We want to know you as a person, giving you the freedom to come alone or as a couple and not tie you down to one label.
Are drugs and alcohol available/allowed at the party?
Intimate has a zero drugs tolerance policy. Alcohol is BYOB. We will label and hold your liquor for you and provide mixers to serve you drinks from the alcohol you bring. We reserve the right to cut anyone off that appears to be overly intoxicated. At the end of the night your alcohol is yours to take home. Please be discreet and don't drink from open containers after leaving the party.
How many people will attend the party?
It varies from event to event, but is never more than 40 people.
What kind of people attend these parties?
Intimate is designed as an sexy, helpful entrance for people new to the lifestyle. However, we welcome sexy veterans who can show the newbies the ropes - literally and figuratively 😉
What is the age range?
Age is just a number! However, the common range is mid 20’s to late 30’s.
Do you provide condoms, toys, lube?
Condoms are provided. Since we place a high priority on safe play, we highly suggest you bring your own lubricant and toys. We will have rubbing alcohol and wipes in the bathroom for your convenience, in case you might want to use your toys several times 🙂
Is the party for straight people only?
Heavens no! How boring would that be? All persuasions are welcome. Please respect the rule of 'ask first'. You never know what people might be into when they let their guards down.
Is it okay to just watch?
It's fun to watch! Just don't be creepy. If you want to do more than casually take in the loveliness of the crowd at play, then you might want to find someone to participate with or pay attention to cues. Most players are quite comfortable with the voyeurism and find it a turn-on, however, hovering too closely and staring over a play session can make something sexy turn creepy.
We ask that all participants at Intimate be healthy, STD-free, use condoms or dams if desired and be mindful of their toys. The sheets are freshly laundered.. if you're concerned with playing where others may have already been that evening, you're more than welcome to bring a towel to lay down. We also have two bathrooms on the play floor with showers and towels.
What is the attire for an Intimate event?
We suggest you wear something that makes you feel strong and sexy (it may come off soon…), but no street clothes.
Do's and Don'ts?
Do have fun, loosen up, flirt, pay attention to other's boundaries, ask first, be a good communicator, practice generosity of spirit. Don't be creepy, act before asking, hover or sneak, be rude to guests, hosts or performers.
Where do I change?
We have one bathroom on the ground floor and two bathrooms on the lower level that you are free to use to change your garments throughout the night.
Anything else I need to know?
We hope you enjoy the party! Remember, you take full responsibility for yourself and your actions for the night, so behave well and if you don't, it's on you. We reserve the right to remove anyone who isn't acting according to Intimate's Code of Conduct.
We celebrate an enthusiastic consent, openness, kink, community, authenticity, exploration, contribution, all bodies, and orientations.
We do not tolerate: aggression, boundary pushing, non-consensual behavior, making others feel uncomfortable, judgment.
This is a place devoted to celebrating human connection in all its intimate forms. A place to uncover, discover, and explore parts of yourself. A place to challenge yourself to give and receive more than you ever imagined you could.